‘How can I make her see my point of view?’

We have been dating for a year now but have never been able to have sex for some reason or another. She says she wants to, and I do too, but it’s always a lack of privacy or some issue that prevents her from staying out late or something else that gets in the way. I don’t know if she’s doing this on purpose just to avoid it and I’m afraid to ask because I don’t want to annoy her, but I think it’s about time we did it. What can I do to get her to see my point of view?
While I agree that sex is important, it is equally important for it to happen when both people in a relationship think it is right. There are no grounds for you to assume your girlfriend is doing this on purpose, considering she has specifically said she wants to. I suggest you wait until it happens on its own. Forcing it upon someone will simply ruin it for you both. Also, if this bothers you as much as it does, why don’t you simply talk to her about it? If you can’t be open about this to her, who can you discuss it with?

I used to like a boy on Facebook a lot, and he said he liked me too. We chatted for a few months and eventually decided to meet. When I went to the mall he mentioned, he didn’t show up. I sent him a message later, and he said he was looking all over for me and couldn’t find me anywhere. I don’t know if he’s lying. Now he is sweet to me again and wants to meet. I’m not sure I can trust him though.
The anonymity offered by the Internet makes it attractive to all kinds of dubious characters. It’s 2017, so I wonder why two people with access to smartphones can’t meet under the same roof. You should ask yourself that question too, before going ahead with another meeting.

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